Doing the hard work, the thing you avoid most, is typically the most important thing to be done. What makes it more challenging? When it’s most needed is usually at the time you wish to avoid it the most as well. Take the time, move at your own pace, and move forward in whatever area needs attention. This will vary for most people, and the process may be nuanced to meet your individual needs. But, in the end, if you wish to grow you most confront the issue head on.
“The degree to which a person can grow is directly proportional to the amount of truth he can accept about himself without running away.” – Leland Val Van De Wall